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2 questions for people in relationships |
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Posts: 856 (06/27/08 12:49 PM) Registered user |
1. Is it better to be honest with your SO and tell him/her how much of a loser you were before him/her, and how nobody wanted to date you, and how everyone you
dated ended up dumping you... etc? Or is it better to lie and tell him/her how much of a catch you were, and tell him/her about all the amazing people you have
dated and how they all killed themselves once you broke up with them?
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Posts: 55304 (06/27/08 12:50 PM) Registered loser |
That's really more than 2 questions.
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drinkinghotchocolate |
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Posts: 29944 (06/27/08 12:52 PM) Registered User |
salsa
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Posts: 444 (06/27/08 12:53 PM) |
I've found that a policy of 100% honesty (or as close as you can humanly get) is not only the most moral policy, but it ends up being the least labor
intensive in the long run. And I'm a lazy bastard, so that means a lot to me.
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DonnaRama |
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Posts: 131 (06/27/08 12:53 PM) |
merkyl wrote: liar |
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Posts: 5442 (06/27/08 12:54 PM) Still OT Forum Dominator
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Tell the truth, but you don't need to get into the gory details. You can be vague, and just say, "I haven't had much luck until you came
along." Something goofy.
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Posts: 9416 (06/27/08 12:55 PM) |
What was the middle thing?
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CBRetriever |
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Posts: 18984 (06/27/08 12:55 PM) MESS member |
why would you want to say you were a loser or a catch - one makes you a braggart and the other makes you a crybaby whinger
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drinkinghotchocolate |
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Posts: 29945 (06/27/08 12:55 PM) Registered User |
Is it better to be honest with your SO and tell him/her how much of a loser you were before him/her, and how nobody wanted to date you, and how everyone you dated ended up dumping you... etc? Trust me. He knows |
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DYATH |
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Posts: 339 (06/27/08 12:59 PM) |
It's better to make out with someone of the same sex in order to turn your SO on.
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Strange Flute |
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Posts: 2569 (06/27/08 12:59 PM) Registered user |
be honest ... if they ask
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simmom2001 |
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Posts: 326 (06/27/08 12:59 PM) |
Why do you need to discuss this at all?
He likes you so why degrade yourself or turn him off by bragging about how great you may or may not actually be. yes, I would take this advice I believe that most men only need to know how you feel about them and not about other men in your past. Hubby knows very little about my dating habits before he came along. I have never given him any reason to worry about it. |
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Posts: 144 (06/27/08 1:31 PM) Registered user |
Most men would truly like to believe that he is the only man you've ever loved/orgasmed with. They may ask you about your past in moments of weakness, but,
trust me, they really don't want to know.
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Posts: 3081 (06/27/08 1:34 PM) Geenyus extraordinaire
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OT recruiter wrote:
Last Edited By: Penelope McBagpipe
06/27/08 1:38 PM.
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DonnaRama |
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Posts: 134 (06/27/08 1:50 PM) |
well, even if you're a loser, you can still probably at least get a prison-boyfriend
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DonnaRama |
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Posts: 135 (06/27/08 1:53 PM) |
and you are...?
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Posts: 3250 (06/27/08 1:53 PM) Registered loser
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You were dumped by everyone? Is that even possible? |
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Hamdingers |
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Posts: 9424 (06/27/08 1:54 PM) |
I dumped him.
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Angela in WI |
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Posts: 23592 (06/27/08 1:55 PM) Registered User |
simmom2001 wrote: Big red motherfucking X
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pussycow |
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Posts: 2572 (06/27/08 1:55 PM) |
Why don't you just send them the link to this thread and see what happens
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Posts: 3252 (06/27/08 2:11 PM) Registered loser
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Oh wait I get it. No matter how bad the relationship got you were always too scared you would never find another person to put up with you so you stayed until
you got dumped.
That is a special kind of pathetic. |
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