Zzunk wrote:
Admittedly I do not have many gay friends and only 2 gay cousins (that I know of, maybe a brother that's in denial), but I think it's very rare for these kinds of bromances due to cultural differences. In a sexual relationship, cultural differences can be overcome, but it's a lot harder when it's non-sexual.
In my humble and sometime worthless opinion, gays operate in a subculture that straights rarely see or can feel comfortable about. My oldest (and once best friend) is gay, but we can barely carry on a 15 minute conversation because I'm not that interested in his personal life and visa versa. I'm not going to watch Desperate Housewives or something on the Logo network, just so I can have a conversation with gay bro -- that's probably unfair because the gays watch all kinds of straight programing, but that's the way it is. I think bromances need to have a connection on the personal level, and I don't think it exists between gay and straight guys, including brothers, cousins and best friends.
Pseudo Propaganda wrote:Burning question: Was it seduction, drunken mistake, or meant to happen (like he's bi or closeted)?
See now I had a girl I worked with and was friends with and I ended up becoming friends with her husband too and then I ended up sleeping with him one time when they were staying with me. So keep an eye on your husband Trixie!
Follow-up question: Did she ever find out?
Mmmm I dunno Zzunk. My bromance is with a straight guy (that I had a crush on that he knew about, but no longer have a crush on) and we talk about EVERYTHING and I am interested in his personal life and he in mine. I think it just depends on the people.
