What AMT said. Get the hell out while you still can.
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Dealing with an extremely clingy SO
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 WiscBadger95 |
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Posts: 11467 (06/25/08 2:18 PM) Registered user |
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peanuts4444 |
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Posts: 102 (06/25/08 2:39 PM) |
You'll be miserable.. you think it's a little thing now, but in a few years you'll be wanting to suffocate him with a pillow
He won't change either, so if you have any ideas that he will, get over them right now |
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WiscBadger95 |
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Posts: 11472 (06/25/08 2:42 PM) Registered user |
Actually, his behavior is a classic early-warning sign of a domestic abuser.
That's why I agree with AMT, run away. Fast. Get this guy out of your life now. |
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JVL58 |
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Posts: 562 (06/25/08 2:52 PM) |
he's ocd, get him on some prozac fast.
or he was weened to early and has mommy issues. |
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PassionatePiscesMan |
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Posts: 5135 (06/25/08 3:20 PM) Registered User |
MAke sure you are the bene to his life insurance then fuck him to death.
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pussycow |
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Posts: 2534 (06/25/08 3:22 PM) |
You better make your face up,
In your favorite disguise, With your button-down lips, And your roller blind eyes. With your empty smile, And your hungry heart, Feel the bile rising, From your guilty past. With your nerves in tatters, As the cockleshell shatters, And the hammers batter, Down your door, You better run |
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Trixie Delight |
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Posts: 24767 (06/25/08 3:25 PM) put Angel in the corner
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Didn't we just go thru this with rolandofthewhite? He had some crazy cryer gf who wouldn't let him alone.
I think we should fix up the cryer and the clinger. |
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DYATH |
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Posts: 272 (06/25/08 3:32 PM) |
Is her name Saran?
Anyhoo, as .38 Special once said, "hold on loosely". |
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OT recruiter |
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Posts: 851 (06/25/08 4:28 PM) Registered user |
You should be thankful you have such a wonderful loving fiancee you whiny bitch
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IndifferentCow |
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Posts: 1418 (06/25/08 4:37 PM) Huge apathy
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How long have you two been together? Was it always like this, or did he gradually get this way? Can you imagine 20 years like this (I'm being generous)?
Tell him he's driving you nuts, talk it out seriously. |
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Citizen Postal |
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Posts: 371 (06/25/08 4:55 PM) |
Drop him. If you stick with someone who makes you unhappy, you'll be unhappy. If you keep thowing 'em back 'till you find someone who makes you
happy, you'll be happy. And if none of 'em make you happy there's something wrong with you and you'll die lonely.
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OT recruiter |
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Posts: 852 (06/25/08 5:17 PM) Registered user |
Ummm... i change my answer. i like citizen postal's answer better. Keep cheating on your fiancee until you find someone you like more. Remember to take
pics of yourself sucking all the other dude's dicks, so you can send them to your fiancee when it is revenge time
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thumbalenae |
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Posts: 2296 (06/25/08 5:30 PM) Registered user |
Ann Margret Thatcher wrote: X
it will just get worse |
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Super Machine |
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Posts: 274 (06/25/08 6:11 PM) Registered user |
Keep him. He's just an alien advance scout from the "Greys". You'll be in a favored position when they turn this planet into organ donor central. Also you'll get discounts on anal probes. Right CP ? |
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ObservingEgo |
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Posts: 6197 (06/25/08 7:42 PM) Hi, you two!!! : ) : ) |
It's true. Clingy, needy types can quickly m-o-r-p-h into controlling abusive mofos. GET OUT NOW!!! |
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Bunny Frou Frou |
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Posts: 2244 (06/25/08 9:45 PM) Registered user |
keep smoking, duh.
how are you posting this without him seeing it? or is that why you threw in the "it's great" junk at the end? |
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Shag |
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Posts: 5372 (06/25/08 9:53 PM) Still OT Forum Dominator
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There's a difference between being somewhat jealous, and being completely dependent on and obsessed with you. Following you into the bathroom (Or
attempting you) shows a huge lack of boundaries. He's going to drive you bonkers.
Unless you're not a real person, I can't keep track anymore. |
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candi7of9 |
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Posts: 826 (06/26/08 12:45 AM) Registered user |
Ouija and IFYOUSEEKATE made me laugh. <3
He does not call a lot during the day. I'd say we trust each other. He obviously is not thinking I'm cheating, because it's around our place that the clinginess occurs. He is 30. Definitely not a virgin when we met. Not a Peterson. Been together for 2 years. It's hard to say whether he was like this when we met, because in the early stages of a relationship it seems normal to want to be with somebody all the time. He knows I post here but he does not read this board. If I were posting this when he was awake he'd want to know what I was typing. I appreciate all the advice and I respect your opinions, but I'm not even entertaining the idea of splitting with him. He loves me, cares about me, is faithful to me, cooks really well, is attractive, shares many of my interests, listens to me, tells me I'm beautiful every day, respects me, does not hurt me physically or emotionally, apologizes for even the smallest tresspasses, makes me laugh, believes in me, encourages me, and (last but not least) puts up with me--a huge plus I think we can all agree. I also really like and admire his mother. I've dated enough men to know this one is quite a catch. Of course I could be wrong, but I believe his clinginess is in part reactionary. To me it is just a symptom and I believe I share part of the responsibility for it, which is why I want to know what I can do to help. The problem is that I have always been on the other side of this fence (completely smitten to the point of obsession) so I have absolutely no first-hand experience to draw upon. I guess I need to use my previous experiences to put myself into his shoes. I feel like I should be paying you guys. Ty for the sincere advice and I am sorry if I sound like a whiny bitch. |
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squashthebeef |
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Posts: 13759 (06/26/08 2:04 AM) faqmaster |
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Shutterbug78 |
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Posts: 2019 (06/26/08 2:09 AM) Registered User |
Yeah, you say that now. We'll be posting stories about you, changing lines to include anal-sex references and posting your mug shot in about a year or so.
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