Fluffynurse wrote:
I met my last husband's ex after we divorced & wished I had talked to her before I married him. We compared notes & saw that he put us both through the same kind of hell. He had a 3 year old son too. He was always telling me his ex was some crazy bitch. Turned out HE was the crazy one.
And I'm lucky. My divorced mom & dad have always been friendly with each other's new spouses. For over 30 years. We all get together for holidays & vacations. My dad brings my step-mom up to visit me & my mom at least once a month. It's always been great.
I'm even friendly with my first husband's wife. It doesn't have to be a bad experience especially when kids are involved (even if some of the kids are over 50 years old).
That is exactly what happened to my best friend. She married a guy with two kids mothered by two different women. Of course those women were crazy, and he was just an unlucky in love bastard. You can guess what happened, my best friend married him, had a child and then the guy started screwing around on her. They are now divorced and she has met a great guy (really) and they are getting married in November. She has since met his ex wife and ex girlfriend and they are definitely not crazy, he was careful to keep them apart when he was dating and during their marriage.















