I am telling you because right now I do not want to tell anyone IRL. And it may not be a big thing to you but it is life changing for me. One of the reasons I
am here so much at night etc. is that there is no true real bond there and neither of us really care if we spend time together. Not in a mean way, it is more
just meh.
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Posts: 20295 (03/02/08 9:43 PM) Registered User |
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Reduced caffeine |
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Posts: 9 (03/02/08 9:43 PM) |
I love threads like this. |
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Hamdingers |
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Posts: 3302 (03/02/08 9:43 PM) |
I can understand that. I once broke up with a woman after seeing 'Ishtar'. I knew I had to follow my heart and buy a blind camel.
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 nomii |
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Posts: 3616 (03/02/08 9:43 PM) Registered user |
And really he does love me, but not in that way.can i have his number? |
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Posts: 76 (03/02/08 9:44 PM) |
I'm sorry, Angela.
Have you both thought of seeing a marriage counselor before jumping ship? Nothing's perfect, you know. |
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Posts: 27432 (03/02/08 9:44 PM) Registered user |
Angela in WI wrote: You didn't know he was in therapy?!!! |
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Angela in WI |
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Posts: 20296 (03/02/08 9:45 PM) Registered User |
I am not exactly sad. I am sad that I finally have to admit to myself that my fairytale life/family is not what I hope it would be. But there is part of me
that is scared/nervous/hopeful that life after divorce could be a good thing for me. I am concerned how this will affect my kids but I think they/us will be
okay.
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Posts: 15784 (03/02/08 9:46 PM) MESS member |
better to divorce than not sometimes
I grew up with two parents that should have divorced |
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not mary kate |
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Posts: 2366 (03/02/08 9:47 PM) Registered user |
just don't let him watch mrs. doubtfire or else your kids are gonna be way more fucked up.
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Posts: 3112 (03/02/08 9:47 PM) Registered user |
You sound like you have a good perspective on things.
Best of luck to you, Ang. |
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Posts: 13525 (03/02/08 9:47 PM) >: | |
And I don't care if any of you lose interest, this is the only place I can open up because we will continue to talk and figure things out and then tell everybody as a team. If you are being serious about this: I just went through this same thing last year. I know it feels shitty now, but it will be okay in the end. I'm happier now than I was then. This is the first time I actually feel sorry for someone in OT! :O |
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not mary kate |
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Posts: 2367 (03/02/08 9:51 PM) Registered user |
i hope your kids are ready to see daddy bang random barsluts on the couch then cry in the bathroom afterward.
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Posts: 1867 (03/02/08 9:51 PM) Registered user |
Neither of us feel jilted, neither of us are heartbroken, we just know that we do not feel passion for each other andNeither of you is financially dependent on the other, right? That's also a bonus (for NMK too. He's got kids, but I think he's got money). If I played this right I bet this could get me out of having to go to chick flicks.You do not go to chick flicks. Please tell me you're making that up. |
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Posts: 9 (03/02/08 9:52 PM) |
I just wanted to tell you good luck. It sounds like you guys both knew it was heading this way. I have a friend going threw this IRL and know it is not an easy
thing.
...and the Ishtar post was hilarious. |
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Posts: 11607 (03/02/08 9:53 PM) faqmaster |
Hey, sign me up for that random barsluts thing.
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Posts: 6644 (03/02/08 9:54 PM) this won't end well.
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sorry whe... anything for the punchline.
didn't mean to cause an existential moment. |
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Posts: 1559 (03/02/08 9:55 PM) Registered User |
Have you tried marriage counseling? You posted that your husband has gone to counseling, but have both of you gone together? Sometimes it is better to try to fix something that you once had together rather than holding out hope that something better may come along. Anyway, I'm sorry this is happening to you and your family. |
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Posts: 11608 (03/02/08 9:56 PM) faqmaster |
Good quality running shoes may help too.
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not mary kate |
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Posts: 2368 (03/02/08 9:57 PM) Registered user |
you do realize this could all be avoided by a viewing of irreconcilable differences, right?
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redundantly redundant |
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Posts: 11821 (03/02/08 9:58 PM) Come Again? |
Sheeyit, he won't go to movies at all, let alone chick flicks. Whatchoo talkin' bout, Whe?
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