Phuz1 wrote:
If you're sitting at a bar sipping a martini, and you say, "Sorry, I'm not a drinker" when somebody offers to buy you another, people
aren't going to believe you're committed to sobriety. If Ben's letting others touch his nipples while lying in bed, he's not committed to his
marriage, no matter what he says.
Actions speak louder than words, and Ronnie never took a vow to walk away from guys who were returning his affections. Ben did, and he's not walking. How
does this make Ronnie the bad guy?
Ronnie's not THE bad guy - he's one of the bad guys. It's the same thing as if you buy a drink for the non-drinker. Ultimately, it's his fault for drinking it, but you're an asshole for enabling him.



















