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The Virgin Murray wrote:

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Basically the only hard evidence is a strangers opinion.

No, OAM. It isn't. Let's review:

You know your girlfriend lied to you about what she was doing that night.

Her girlfriend said they were somewhere different than where your girlfriend said. That is huge.

This guy who has no apparent ax to grind with either one of you identifies that very same night as the night your girlfriend was blowing him and two other guys. He had no way of knowing about her lying about being out that night and you stalking her that night. By the way, he didn't offer an "opinion" that she blew him that night. It was a statement that might be true or false, but definitely not his "opinion."

When pressed for proof, he correctly identified that she had something unique on her left asscheek. He called it a dimple, but think about that. Depending on how you define a dimple, either everybody or nobody has a dimple on their ass. It certainly is not notable if someone's ass is not a perfect round shape. He came up with the wrong word.

By the way, you never responded to an earlier question of mine - When he told you this, did he embellish the story with lots of salacious details or did he just tell you the basics of what happened? It's an important indicator.

In any case, you're right that you need to find this guy and talk with him. Unless he has a very common name, it should be easy. You know the approximate area he lives in, (my deduction is NY or northern NJ) so search on 411.com, Facebook, etc. He's probably not accomplished enough to come up on a google search but that's worth a try. Let me know before you talk to him though. We need to carefully strategize how you approach him and what you ask him. You're going to get one chance to do this right.

Your buddy,
Murray

(edited to add: No he didn't give any details, he said what happened and then said he was sorry and then I said he was full of shit and walked out, he said that dimple comment as I was ignoring him.)

My fiance came over to my house before work today and we had a heated discussion. She got mad, obviously, when I told her I can't just believe her after all I know, that I wasn't letting her off that easy by just walking away or forgetting about it. She threatened me about breaking it off if I don't trust her enough. So we sat down and I threw out all the evidence I had(I even told her about the guy) and asked her to put herself in my position. I asked her how would she feel and if she could understand where I'm coming from. She actually understood and said she'd feel the same way(Wow, shocker!). Then she started to cry and hugged me saying how much she loved me and that I'm the best guy in the world and that she'll never lie when she goes out again. She kept looking me in the eye while she was crying all "Why cant you just believe me? I would never! how could you think that? after all we've been through together!" etc.

I asked her about the guy and why would he even think about coming at me with that ridiculousness if it wasn't true. She told me the guy was a lazy worker that she helped get fired. He was a temporary that worked there and she's full time, so on her word and her supervisors he was fired. So then I asked about that dimple comment and she paused for a minute and didn't have an answer..then said she might have said something in the line about it jokingly?

Again I felt the guilt and the frustration, but also the anger. I told her I wanted to believe her, but there was just too much evidence against her for me to just drop it either way.

Tonight me, her, her friend and her friend's boyfriend are going to sit down and talk.

The IMPORTANT PART is she understood my position, which I respect. She feels guilty for putting me in this position but confirms to prove her innocence.

I'll let you know Murray when I get a hold of that guy. My fiance says she has no idea how to contact him , so she's going to ask someone at work who would know(we'll see).

I'm more confused now than ever.

Pahrump Mania wrote:

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So this guy she helped to get fired guessed the exact night that she lied about going out? You're a bigger sucker than she is.

I didn't get a night. I kick myself for not finding out more. He said what happened, I started to shake with anger, and I said he was full of shit and left before I did anything I'd regret. Which...ironically enough, I now regret.