My Mom says I should go see a psychologist, but I want your opinions first:
In my early twenties I didn't really have a lot of girlfriends, I attribute this to being too skinny and not having enough muscles. My face is pretty good I get a lot of compliments on it, no compliments on the rest of my body. I do understand that girls usually do not like skinny guys, and I'm not really upset about it since I would not date girls who have or lack certain physical features as well.
Why am I writing this thread though is now I am pretty goodlooking because I have been working out for over a year now, pumping my body with protein shakes on a daily basis. The way I look at it, I would rather die sooner from a high-protein diet than to live as a skinny-ass the rest of my life. My abdominal muscles are like Erik's from Survivor. Being slim to begin with, the abs came easier :-)
Anyway, I am finding myself getting picked up and hit on a lot by a lot of different girls- girls who would never approach the old me. This could be correlated to a lottery win, having a bunch of new friends all of a sudden. I know, you're asking me what the problem is. The problem is that I don't want any girl who wouldn't have approached the old me, I want someone who would have liked me for me.
This has caused a lot of relationship failure for me in the last year, because I can tell when a girl is shallow because of comments she makes and I can tell she wouldn't have liked the old me. So I dump her. I am going to die alone and single because I will never be able to distinguish who likes me for me!
In my early twenties I didn't really have a lot of girlfriends, I attribute this to being too skinny and not having enough muscles. My face is pretty good I get a lot of compliments on it, no compliments on the rest of my body. I do understand that girls usually do not like skinny guys, and I'm not really upset about it since I would not date girls who have or lack certain physical features as well.
Why am I writing this thread though is now I am pretty goodlooking because I have been working out for over a year now, pumping my body with protein shakes on a daily basis. The way I look at it, I would rather die sooner from a high-protein diet than to live as a skinny-ass the rest of my life. My abdominal muscles are like Erik's from Survivor. Being slim to begin with, the abs came easier :-)
Anyway, I am finding myself getting picked up and hit on a lot by a lot of different girls- girls who would never approach the old me. This could be correlated to a lottery win, having a bunch of new friends all of a sudden. I know, you're asking me what the problem is. The problem is that I don't want any girl who wouldn't have approached the old me, I want someone who would have liked me for me.
This has caused a lot of relationship failure for me in the last year, because I can tell when a girl is shallow because of comments she makes and I can tell she wouldn't have liked the old me. So I dump her. I am going to die alone and single because I will never be able to distinguish who likes me for me!
